First Round of Fetch Eyewear Pics

I asked Fetch if I could do a review/giveaway of their at-home frame service and they kindly agreed. I received the frames free of charge. Giveaway to come!

So I’ve kind of been a maniac on Facebook the last 24 hours since I got my Fetch frames. I am kind of obsessed. So to keep everyone there from killing me, here’s the first round of self-pics. And my first-ever self-pics, for the record.

To start things off I wanted a set of pictures of me with no makeup. Well, I have a smidge of eyeliner on and moisturizer, but that’s it. This is often how I go out so I want to make sure I keep it in mind. Plus it helps me get a clearer look at my face shape, the colors, etc.

So here’s the first round of pics. I’ll have my full review next week and I hope to have a set of with-makeup pics to follow in the next couple days.

I definitely have my opinions already. (Top pick: Sadie, then Alex. Carolyn is oddly growing on me though I don’t love the color.) But I also want to hear what you guys think. Some of these are available in different colors and I tried to get a variety of colors to try on. Alex, for example, has a bajillion colors but is one of the only frames with that bright blue so I gave it a whirl. If I pick it, I can always change to one of the others, like the Cadet I ordered in Jill, for example. I’m definitely wondering if the bright blue of Alex is too crazy or if it makes my eyes pop just right.

So here goes, leave comments, tell me what you think.

And sorry about the glare. It’s really hard to find good light in my apartment.

Fetch no makeup collage First Round of Fetch Eyewear Pics

Boston’s Drool Baby Expo 2013

This post is all about the super-awesome Drool Baby Expo. I’m attending this year as one of their promotional bloggers and have been provided a complimentary pair of tickets. I will have the super sweet recap up in a few weeks, so watch out, Baby Gear fiends…

It’s back, one of my favorite events of the year: the Drool Baby Expo.   

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If you don’t have kiddos you may not realize how useful a baby expo is for parents. But when you’re shopping for baby gear, it’s really hard to comparison shop. No matter how big or small the store, the selection is never as varied as you like and you usually have to go to a lot of different places. And some stuff you can’t find anywhere and have to rely on internet reviews which are notoriously unreliable when it comes to baby stuff.

This is why the baby expo is the best thing ever. ALL the things are there. Plus you have the brands themselves answering your questions. And they have great deals. And Drool Baby has the swankest gift bags you’ve ever seen. Check out my recap of last year’s expo to see what I mean.

Sure, my baby is 14 (almost 15!) months old now, but the expo is great for parents of toddlers, babies and parents-to-be. Also they have treats and prizes and spa treatments and more. Even if you’re not sure what you need, you can still have a delightful time.

Tickets are $35 and include a gift bag. And if you want to bring a friend or spouse you can get them a value ticket for just $15 that won’t include the gift bag. Let me tell you: these gift bags cost more than the price of a ticket. No. Joke. Plus if you’re looking to buy any big gear you’ll save a lot more than that, too. Last year I bought our Diono Radian car seat at Drool Baby and saved a bundle. (Diono could hire me as a spokesperson. I love them so much.) 

My favoritest thing, though, isn’t the big brands with their big gear. It’s all the local boutiques and brands you didn’t know about that you’ll find.  Like last year when I discovered Tiny Hanger and their super adorable shop in Coolidge Corner. Or Kaya’s Kloset and her super cute cloth shoes for baby. If you love local, it’s a great time to find wonderful stuff near you. And if that isn’t enough, just take a peek at some of the stuff I saw and loved last year

And lucky you, I’m giving away a pair of tickets (1 standard, 1 value) to a reader. Woohoo! So please enter, and if you don’t win, head on over to Drool Baby’s site to snatch up a ticket for yourself. The Expo is Tuesday May 21 from 4 to 9 pm at the Westin Waterfront Hotel in the Seaport District. (Speaking of which, how much do I love the Seaport district? So much awesome stuff there of late.)

To Enter:

  • 1 mandatory entry: leave a comment with what you’ll be shopping for at the expo.
  • 1st bonus entry: Make sure you follow me  and Drool Baby and then tweet the following “Win a pair of tickets from @jessicaesquire to Boston’s event for all things baby-gear @droolbaby expo! http://ow.ly/kMOy9 ” Leave the URL of your tweet in a comment.
  • 2nd bonus entry: Make sure you’re following me on Pinterest and then re-pin something from my Best of Drool Baby Pinterest board from last year’s expo. Make sure you re-pin with the hashtag #droolbaby  Leave the URL of your pin in a comment.
  • You can do either bonus entry or both or neither. Your call. But you MUST leave a mandatory entry.

Rules: No purchase necessary. By leaving a comment you agree to the rules of this giveaway. One entry per household. Limited to entrants over 18 in the US and Canada. Contest begins as of the time of this post and ends on Tuesday, May 14th at 6 pm Eastern Time. The winner will receive a standard ticket and a value ticket to the Drool Baby Expo, a retail value of $50 US. The number of eligible entries received will determine the odds of winning. The winner will be selected using the “And the Winner Is” plugin. Winner will be notified by email and must respond within 24 hours to receive their prize. If the winner does not respond within that time, a new winner will be chosen. The prize will be provided by Magic Beans. Don’t Mind the Mess is not responsible for any problems with receipt of the prize. This contest is governed by the rules of Massachusetts, void where prohibited.

The Easiest Things Are Now The Hardest

I really want to sit down and write about my kids. I made the photo books for my mom and mother-in-law yesterday, which is something I plan on doing every year but this is only the second time I’ve actually done it. (Used Blurb. There’s a promo code in my sidebar. Wink.)  Anyway. I was looking through the last year of the blog to find little bits I’d written about them to add to the book and realized that I have not spent much time lately singing their praises. 

So I want to sit down and write about them. I want to write about how fantastically talkative Graham is, the almost unbelievable progress he’s made since he started school. His enthusiasm, his optimism, his budding extroversion. His new predilection for nail polish. His first practices for soccer. His constant requests to “go eat somewhere” even though he never eats any real meals.

I want to write about Tessa and how despite the way she is clinging to babyhood and taking her sweet time growing up and finding her way so I can get to know her better, she is still a beauty with a magnetic personality. People cannot stop looking at her and touching her toes and fingers. She may have an unmanageable pile of hair on her little head, but she remains a mostly calm and happy and smiley baby who warms up to people as quickly as a microwave.

But it’s hard for me to fill a post with it. It’s hard for me to fill a post with anything. Monday is supposed to be my write-whatever-you-damn-well-please day but today the freedom is a kind of captivity. My brain is jumpy and unsettled. I do not know what to say about anything.

At home things are in a strange and uncomfortable limbo while we wait for the sublet to open up next week and give us the space we need more every day. This week we have our first appointment with a new couple’s counselor. I have been inundated and almost overwhelmed by messages of support and love and friendship.

People keep asking me what they can do and I don’t have any real answers for them. By now I am used to doing things alone. And I don’t just mean watching the kids and putting them to bed and waking up with them in the morning and any time they may need it at night. I mean everything. Doctor’s appointments. Evaluations. School meetings. Playgroups. Family events. Even Listen To Your Mother  on Saturday had me as one of the few without a family cheering section. I am too used to it, and yet it is a lot harder now even if the events themselves haven’t really changed. The emptiness feels bigger and sadder.

I find myself unexpectedly vulnerable. It strikes me at strange times in strange places. 

While my day-to-day has changed so little, everything inside has changed immensely. Now I find myself facing two vastly different versions of my future instead of the single version I’d been looking at for so many years now. I can’t really see either of them clearly, but the fact that there’s this fork in the road is becoming more and more real.

I wish all of this made writing easier. Back in the day, my journal was always at its best in times of crisis. But these days I feel stuck, at least when it comes to writing about myself. (Usually my very favorite activity.) 

Meanwhile, I’m going to try to pull my camera out more often and take more pictures of the kids. That way, even if I can’t write what I feel at least I can show you how lovely they are.

 

Book Reviews: NOS4A2 & Someday, Someday, Maybe

Two new book reviews today for those of you with a little nostalgia for things gone by. 

nos4a2 Book Reviews: NOS4A2 & Someday, Someday, Maybe

NOS4A2 by Joe Hill

Do you miss 80′s horror? Those giant doorstop books with tough heroes and creepy baddies? Those books that were part adventure and part creep-fest? Well, it’s back in a big way with NOS4A2 by Joe Hill. (If you find that title confusing, just look at the cover and think Nosferatu.)

I read this book and I saw old-school Stephen King… if he hadn’t been quite so drunk all the time. This book has a powerful story and a powerful protagonist, Vic McQueen. She has a strange and special gift to find lost things, but it takes a toll on her sanity. She’s troubled, she’s kickass, she’s determined. Basically, she’s awesome. If you’ve read Joe Hill’s previous novels (Horns and Heart-Shaped Box) you already know he has a real gift for creating unique and interesting protagonists. He definitely keeps up the streak here. 

As for the bad guy, Charlie Manx is plenty creepy. And for many of us, the whole idea of a bad guy tied up with all things Christmas is going to make us very happy this book didn’t come out in December so we have some time to recover before another holiday season is upon us.

Like his other novels, I don’t think you have to be a horror reader to enjoy Hill. He has a very readable, playful style that would make this a great beach read.

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someday Book Reviews: NOS4A2 & Someday, Someday, Maybe

Someday, Someday, Maybe by Lauren Graham

Switching gears, if you still haven’t recovered from the demise of Gilmore Girls then I have a book for you. Lauren Graham (aka Lorelei Gilmore) has written her first novel, Someday, Someday, Maybe

My first question was, “Can Lauren Graham write?” My second question was, “How does Lauren Graham write?”

The answers are “Yes” and “Exactly the way you’d expect her to.”

Someday, Someday, Maybe is about Franny who lives in New York City and wants to make it as an actress… but she knows she can’t wait tables forever. She has a deadline before she ditches her dream to marry her backup guy, and that deadline is coming fast. 

You can tell Graham has lived this life. It feels very insider… though it’s not anything close to a glamorous life. Still, it’s lots of fun to go behind the scenes when Franny scores a commercial and to see all the crazy effort that goes into a 30-second spot for laundry detergent. 

Franny has Lauren/Lorelei’s quick wit and she’ll definitely keep you giggling. 

Bonus: Lauren Graham reads the audiobook

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Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

I was invited to the opening of the Walgreens store opening by Collective Bias®.  I was compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias ™ and Walgreens #CBias #SocialFabric  All Opinions are my own.

When you live in the city, you tend to go to the same drug store all the time. You know the one. The one where there’s a little more space, a little wider selection, a little longer areas, a little shorter lines. We’re lucky to have a CVS near our house, but I confess I used to drive there before we were so close to it because it was just a cut above in terms of what’s available in the area.

So hearing about a new Walgreens in Boston had me feeling a little torn. I know how things work at my local CVS. I go there a few times a week. I know their rewards program. 

On the other hand, the Downtown Crossing area is in desperate need of MORE. More space, more food, more shopping, more coffee, more everything. I agreed to check out the new Walgreens and decided I’d keep an open mind and see if they could talk me into getting a Walgreens Rewards card on my keychain.

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I was looking for a few particular things when I came to the new Walgreens. Space, variety, quality. That’s pretty much what it comes down to and I was totally amazed on every level.

I have a feeling every concierge in the city is going to be visiting this place very soon. If you’re traveling and you need something, you can find it at this Walgreens and it’s probably pretty close to your hotel if you’re staying downtown. (Even if you’re not staying downtown, you’ll inevitably find yourself this way during your sightseeing.) Sure there’s the usual: toothbrush, shampoo, band-aids. But maybe you forgot a pair of sandals? They have flip flops. Cute ones. (After our long day of touring and partying, one of my fellow bloggers had sore feet. Walgreens to the rescue!) They have a whole aisle of chargers and tech accessories for the forgetful among us. They simply have everything.

I took so many pictures while I was there that they simply don’t fit into this post, even in collage format. Check out my G+ album here for more.

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But it’s the other stuff that really shocks me about this location. The beauty department looks like you’re in a department store. Walgreens calls this swanky section the Look Boutique. Sure, you can find your usual drugstore makeup brands like Revlon or Cover Girl. But you’ll also find a lot more upscale makeup. Like a brand I love, Boots No. 7. They have awesome makeup and skincare lines at sweet prices. I’ve used their tinted moisturizer for 3 summers.

 Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

 Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

This is more like a Sephora or a department store than a drugstore. And even better than that, the beauty advisors in the Look Boutique are trained on all their products. Including brow shaping and manicures they do on site.

I was super impressed by the Sample It machine, where you can get samples of products for $1 that comes with a high-value coupon to use on the product if you like it. I tried it out and got 3 samples of Revlon ColorBurst Lip Gloss, I’m always looking for the next great lip product.

The other cool machine is the makeover kiosk where you can snap a pic of yourself and see how different colors and shades look on your face. You can even get them emailed to you.

Also, did I mention the TWELVE DOLLAR MANICURES? 

walgreens collage 3 Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

For people who work in Downtown Crossing or those of us who just hang out in the area while shopping or sightseeing. It’s a huge relief to have a place to stop in for a wide variety of food, drinks and snacks.

There’s a cafe with premium coffee and espresso drinks. There’s a bakery counter with pastries and treats brought in from two excellent local bakeries, Lyndell’s and Sweet Tooth. These will definitely beat the stuff you see at your local Starbucks. I’m talking mini cannoli, cupcakes, macarons, the works. 

 Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

There’s a sushi bar. A fruit & smoothie bar. A frozen yogurt bar that doesn’t charge you by weight (hallelujah!). A Coke Freestyle machine. (if you have not used one, they are the best. I use them for my drink of choice: 75% Diet Coke, 25% Diet Coke with Lime.) A nice selection of food, including refrigerated and frozen sections (seriously, the yogurt section is nearly as big as a grocery store’s). And grab & go fruit, sandwiches, salads and snacks in such wide varieties you’ll have trouble choosing. They have hummus, people. 

The food options are a big deal to me. I have found myself downtown with the kids several times without any good options for snacks and drinks. Now we definitely have a go-to.

 Exploring the New Walgreens Flagship Store

Oh, and how can I forget what will truly surprise the locals: beer, wine and liquor. That’s not what we expect to find at the grocery store, and definitely not at the drug store. And it’s an impressive selection. I’m willing to bet it has more than you see in most of our city liquor stores, which tend to be pretty low on space and selection. (And far too many are high on the sketchiness factor.)

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One thing I noticed not just in the alcohol section but all over the store was a real effort to show Boston love. When they’re smack dab in the middle of the city and right across the street from the famous Old South Meeting House, it helps to cozy up to us Bostonians. (If you’re a local and you’re wondering where the store is, it’s right at the old Borders.) Half the space used to be a bank and they’ve left lots of cool old architectural touches in place instead of just trying to turn it into something else. 

Downtown Crossing is really starting to feel more family-friendly and this Walgreens is a welcome addition. I have a feeling we’ll be dropping by next time we take the kids to the Frog Pond or the Swan Boats for the summer.

So did they convince me to add that Rewards Card? I have to say, they did. I’ll be signing up next time I stop in. This is the drugstore everyone wishes was right around the corner. And here in Boston we’re lucky to have it tucked in the heart of our city.

Getting My Confidence Back

I find it easy to be confident most of the time. I’m one of those self-aware types who likes to know my strengths and my weaknesses and act accordingly. I know what I’m good at. I tend to have a good idea of where I stand in relation to other people. 

But this isn’t always true. When it came to auditioning for Listen to Your Mother I felt unsure about my piece. I had to send it to other people to read to make sure it was a good enough essay. Once I had positive feedback, though, I fell back into my natural confidence. I can stand in front of people and talk, it is one of my talents. 

So I went to my audition determined to rock it. I left my audition determined I’d rocked it. I got accepted and was pleased at how well I’d rocked it.

Everything changed when I went to the first rehearsal. I only knew one other person there (Lexi) and I knew her piece was amazing. But still. I’d rock it. I was awesome. And I saw that I’d been assigned the last slot in the program so this was surely validation of my awesomeness.

Then the other women started to read. 13 of them went before me. And with each minute that passed, I kept thinking, “What am I doing here?” 

This is not a thought I normally have.

I didn’t sit in class that first day of law school thinking, What am I doing here? I was overwhelmed and kind of lost but mostly excited and enthusiastic to take it all on and learn.

I was nervous before I took cases to trial but the moment I got to stand up and speak and ask questions and argue my case I felt at ease and confident that I’d do my best for my clients.

I’m not sure exactly why I felt so out of my depth, but I did. Surely they would realize I was an impostor, that I didn’t belong. I read… and they all smiled and clapped and gushed and yet I still didn’t feel quite comfortable.

I’ve thought about this a lot. My hypothesis is that personal essays are hard to judge, especially ones about family or motherhood. You have your own emotional response to it, your own connection to the material, your own memories attached to the stories you tell. For your audience it’s all a surprise and has its own connection to their own life and its own discovery of someone else’s experiences. I feel that when each of my fellow cast members tells her story and I can only assume they feel it with mine, too.

So what I’m saying is that Listen To Your Mother is on Saturday in Providence and it is going to be amazing. I’m looking forward to sitting through everyone’s essays again for a 3rd time. It’s amazing enough to make me want to be a better writer and a better mom. (Also: bring tissues. I will not be wearing mascara, after all, I’m last.) 

Please, please come. Here’s all the info. I hope I get to see you there. 

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